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Perfectionists
tend to give up on challenges because they
are afraid of failure. They often “stick with
safer tasks” that are already mastered. This can
greatly inhibit “innovation and creativity.”
Convinced
that no one else can handle the job adequately,
perfectionists find it hard to delegate. Nevertheless,
“analysis paralysis” causes them to habitually
procrastinate.
Seeing life
as an “all or nothing game,” they often indulge in “black-and-white”
thinking. Fearing “criticism,
blame and ridicule,” perfectionists shun feedback
that could be helpful.
Although this
profile seems dim, it can be lightened. Self-awareness
is key. Frequently ask, “Did I set the bar too
high?” Break large goals into smaller
ones: “weekly,
daily or even hourly goals.” Remind
yourself that failure
is an essential part of the human learning curve. Perfection is God's realm, all the rest are works in progress.
Resources
https://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/career/7-bad-habits-you-need-to-give-up-now-to-be-successful/ar-AAshNGR?li=BBnb7Kx&ocid=BHEA000
Copyright February 22, 2018 by Linda Van Slyke All Rights Reserved
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