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Sunday, November 4, 2018

Thanksgiving: What not to say


(Photo by Ben Franske)
So you’re sitting around the Thanksgiving table once again, and there’s Aunt Betsy, who never married. 

Do you let curiosity get the best of you and ask why not, or do you let courtesy prevail?  It might be a good idea to stuff your mouth with mashed potatoes the moment that such a question seems forthcoming.

Then there’s the matter of church (synagogue, mosque, temple, etc.) shaming.  Conducting an apres-dinner survey regarding attendance at religious institutions is an etiquette no-no.

And while we're on the subject, food shaming is also taboo.  Whether you’re loudly berating yourself for letting it go straight to the thighs, or trouncing others for gluttonous tendencies, zip that lip when not actively chewing.

The opposite also holds true.  If the person across from you seems anorexic because he’s not piling goodies onto his plate, this is not the time to inquire, “Is that all you’re eating?” He does not owe you a detailed description of his digestive abilities, nor do you necessarily want one.

Resources
https://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/smart-living/15-things-you-should-never-say-on-thanksgiving/ss-BBPbCev?li=BBnb7Kz&ocid=BHEA000#image=2

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